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Crewless: They Come and They Go

Many people offer to come on a passage but very few actually do.  There are so many moving parts, sliding schedules, and things to work around that it makes it difficult for “the working man” to make the trip.  We had two people interested in doing the New Caledonia (New Cal) passage.  So, how did we end up crewless?

Adam from New Zealand was our first “victim.”  I say that jokingly.  Adam lives here in New Zealand which made it appealing because he could easily be at the boat at the first weather window.  However, the weather did not cooperate and the departure date kept sliding. Eventually, Adam had to back out due to family circumstances.

Jason from Austin.  Matt worked with Jason 15 years ago.  We ran into him a few years ago and he mentioned he would be interested in doing a passage.  He had lots of charter and sailing experience – just no passage or overnight experience.

We did not think he would be able to get to NZ in time but reached out and asked him if he was interested.  He moved heaven and earth to get here.

The Waiting Continues

We had been working toward a departure date about 6 days after Jason’s arrival.  In the meantime he worked remotely from the boat.  After his work hours we took him around Whangarei.

Matt took him on a 7 mile hike.  They hiked up to the top of the mountains (by the antennae’s) and then around the park and back to town.

We also walked the Hatea Loop several times.  I made the boys partake in all the fun activities along the trail.

The Disappointment

Our proposed departure date was upon us and we had to make a decision.  Depart and get pummeled by the weather or wait for the next weather window. 

We went back and forth, had many discussions, talked with several weather routers, and finally decided not to take the risk.

It was really disappointing as that meant Jason would not be able to make the passage with us.  Why is that?  He had a flight out on the 9th of June which meant we had to leave NZ no later than the 2nd of June.  However, there were no weather windows between now and then.

So, Jason made the hard decision to stay for a week, change his flights and go home a week early. 

Despite being crewless for the passage we were determined to show our crew the best time during his stay.

Overnight Sail

We left our cozy marina dock after many sad goodbyes.  We decided to take Jason out to the Bay of Islands to show him a little more of New Zealand.

And since, Jason had never done an overnight, we decided to give him that experience too.

We left Whangarei late in the afternoon and headed 50nm to Whangamumu.

We had a beautiful sunset to send us offshore.

The moon was 3/4 full which shown brightly during most of the night.

Jason and Matt found the Southern Cross.

Jason did really well.  He got a little sick once he lost the horizon, but he managed to stay outside all night!  It may not seem like that big of a deal but it was 40F outside!  Freaking cold.  What a solider!

Our blog posts run 6 weeks behind actual live event.

Jason visited Sugar Shack toward the end of May 2026.

Stay tuned for more adventures with Jason in New Zealand.

The Amazing Life at The Villages

My dearest friend Jamie was celebrating her 60th birthday.  She invited me and our other sweet friend Michelle to visit her house in The Villages (Orlando, FL).

The Villages span over 30,000 acres across 57 square miles.  There are villages inside villages.  There are many villages with individual town squares that each have dozens of restaurants, shops, and daily entertainment.  

Each village hosts numerous daily activities including pottery, cardio drumming, synchronized swimming, beach tennis, tap dance, square dance, and more.

The Villages features hundreds of pickleball and tennis courts, over 100 swimming pools, and more golf courses than any other community in the world.

Jamie is taking tap dance, watercolor cards, pickleball, Thai chi and cardio drumming.  We loved cardio drumming!  It was a great work out with fun, energetic music, and wonderful people!

Transportation

Golf Cart Capital: With over 90 miles of dedicated golf cart trails, residents use carts as their primary mode of transportation to access doctors, grocery stores, and recreation centers.

They had more parking for golf carts than they did cars!

The grounds are immaculate and so beautiful.  We all decided we liked the older villages because they had these majestic oak trees that simply took your breath away.

Michelle and I walked in the mornings and I spotted my first gator in the local pond!

On our way home from lunch we came across these beautiful cranes trying to cross the road.  Poor things had to be so scared but they made it across unscathed!

Jamie’s fur babies: Misha and Whiskey.  They are the most well -behaved dogs with wonderful dispositions.  

Mother’s Day

We all went out to celebrate Mother’s day.  I love these women!  

The next day we went up to a local fair in a village up “north.”  They had everything you could want from food, drinks, tourist items, baked goods, The Village residents stuff and more.It is always so hard to say goodbye.  Michelle had an early flight so we dropped her off before heading to our last stop  – Gator Land.

Gator Land

Jamie and I went to Gator Land, because why not?

I held a baby alligator and had a snake around my neck which hid in my hair 🙂

We watched a show where they made the gators jump for chicken, found a baby gator, a white gator, and some menacing gators.

Gator Land also had a lovely bird sanctuary.

Life is so much easier when you have remarkable women by your side. I’ve been extremely blessed with so many amazing women in my life.  But truly, Jamie and Michelle are my soul sisters and I feel so blessed to have been able to spend quality time with them.

Our blog posts run 4-6 weeks behind actual live events. 

I was in Florida the first part of May 2026.

Be sure to check out my last blog post where Duran Duran performs at The Beach Life Festival.

The Beach Life Festival

I made a very quick trip to California to visit my sister.  I was in route to Florida but can never come to the States without seeing my sweet sister.

This trip had me taking 2 buses and an uber to Auckland, a short stay at the unique Naumi Hotel, then a 14 hour flight to L.A.

The hotel was pretty cool but I did not get a chance to enjoy it as I arrived at 8p and left at 4a.

Beach Life Festival

I had a few hours to drop my bag and collect myself before we headed to the Beach Life Festival.  This is a 3-day festival, but we only had tickets for Day 1.  The headliner was Duran Duran!

It was a beautiful day in Redondo Beach.  Warm weather, sunny skies and tons of beachgoers.

My sister Kimberly, Troy, Kalani (Cole’s fiancĂ©) and Cole played with us!

Drinks were terribly expensive, but super delicious. 

They had a few “photo op” spots which we took full advantage of.

The first band we saw was Group Love and they were on fire!  It was a spectacular show.

We tried to get in to see the Chain Smokers but it was jammed packed. So, we headed to the Duran Duran Stage to secure a great spot.

Simon was spectacular and sounded just like he did 30 years ago!  He put on a great show featuring all of their greatest hits and loads of entertainment.

Polliwog Park

My sister and I brough her dog Luke to Polliwog Park.  This enormous park has multiple playgrounds, dog parks, historic sites and more!

Polliwog Park is in Manhattan Beach which showed off with a perfectly beautiful sunny day,

All sorts of critters were out enjoying the sunshine!

These little turtles were doing yoga trying to warm their hind legs. 

Ducks, Canadian geese, and pelicans were all fighting for the same fish.

I just love these two!

Even though it was a short visit – it was full of love, laughter and little adventures.  I am eternally grateful to my beautiful sister and her husband Troy for always taking such great care of me when I visit.

Our blog posts run 4-6 weeks behind actual events.

I was in Los Angeles in early May.

I take you along the Eastern Coast of the North Island in our last blog titled “The East Coast of the North Island.